If you’ll implement these in your home, I’m convinced you’ll be on a path to “success” that will create a positive legacy in your family for generations to come:
As a “successful” family, we will always strive to…
1. Value character over charisma
We don’t want to be impressive; we want to be real. In our home, we will not compromise our integrity to achieve popularity, accolades or monetary gain. We understand that any “success” that happens at the expense of our character is not really success.
2. Give each other unconditional love AND high expectations
Most families are good at one or the other (or neither) of these, but both are incredibly important. Love must be given freely and without condition, but simultaneously, we must love each other enough to expect the best. In love, we propel each other on towards continuous improvement in all aspects of life (career, health, faith, academics, etc.)
3. Be there for each other
Our families don’t need more gifts or gadgets; they need more of us. They need ourpresence, not our presents. Our time is our greatest commodity and we should invest it into the relationships that matter most.
4. Always tell each other the truth
Trust is the foundation of every healthy family, so we will fight for trust and always expect truth and honesty from each other. When we’ve blown it, we’ll be quick to admit it and we’ll seek forgiveness and work to rebuilt trust.
5. Never give up on each other!
A “perfect family” is just a group of imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other! In good times, celebrate with each other. In hard times, lean on each other. In all times, do life together.
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